There have been something happening recently, not relationships but more about work. Something I got headache but appreciate it happened because I deeply learnt something important:

• The most excellent person is not the one who can survive well in the environment. (Well! depend on how you define “Excellent”). For me, It’s the one who can flexibly integrate into the diverse environment, adapt the new culture and just agree everyone in that environment, it’s who they are. You are just a small part of it. There are something you can’t control. It’s just out of your hand. Even when you put your feet into another’s shoes you might hardly understand why… but relax, exhale. Go with the flow. It doesn’t mean you have to change yourself, you have to know who you are and why you’re here. Being with different people and different mindset helps you a lot. And be happy, you’re still heading to your ultimate goal.
• Flexibility: I think it’s such an important soft skill that we have to be aware of and train ourselves.

Breathe in. Breathe out. Go with the flow 🌊